So there is someone in my life that is extremely lazy. The problem is that this person does not see themselves as lazy. I mean when push comes to shove they will admit it but in the myths of the lazy episode they are doing nothing wrong and in fact catch attitude about me ever perceiving them as such. God forbid!
And really - who's gonna sit there and say "yeah I know, I'm a lazy fuck. Please cure me" Ha! If it was only that easy!
But seriously, can you cure the lazy? Or are you doomed once you've accepted it the first time? I know what the experts would probably say. Sending out mixed signals, bla bla bla.... But either I accept it for what is is most times or I'd be pissed off ALL the time. And sometimes it's just about the "you are a lazy shit" type of thing but others its so much more. It's about the "can we be equals? Or How can you sit by and watch me bust my ass while you sit on yours?" thing.
I guess the question is whether the person will ever see in themselves that they are a lazy fuck and if it will ever matter enough to make them change. I've thought of the alternates. Being just as lazy so they can see what they are not doing when nothing gets done. But what will that really accomplish other than me succumbing myself to a life of filth, hunger and poverty? I've thought of the extreme where I leave the person to their lazy ways and go about mine. Just so they can see how much I really did do. But that would probably just make me look like the ultimate bitch and they'd probably just find someone else (like their mother) to do all the things I did anyway.
Anyway, I chose not to fight with attitude itself. I mean what could piss a person off more than doing everything, being asked why the one thing you didn't do is not done and THEN on top of it all to get attitude when you maybe just maybe expect their lazy feckin ass to lift a feckin lazy ass finger!
