Can you cure the lazy?

So there is someone in my life that is extremely lazy. The problem is that this person does not see themselves as lazy. I mean when push comes to shove they will admit it but in the myths of the lazy episode they are doing nothing wrong and in fact catch attitude about me ever perceiving them as such. God forbid!
And really - who's gonna sit there and say "yeah I know, I'm a lazy fuck. Please cure me" Ha! If it was only that easy!
But seriously, can you cure the lazy? Or are you doomed once you've accepted it the first time? I know what the experts would probably say. Sending out mixed signals, bla bla bla.... But either I accept it for what is is most times or I'd be pissed off ALL the time. And sometimes it's just about the "you are a lazy shit" type of thing but others its so much more. It's about the "can we be equals? Or How can you sit by and watch me bust my ass while you sit on yours?" thing.
I guess the question is whether the person will ever see in themselves that they are a lazy fuck and if it will ever matter enough to make them change. I've thought of the alternates. Being just as lazy so they can see what they are not doing when nothing gets done. But what will that really accomplish other than me succumbing myself to a life of filth, hunger and poverty? I've thought of the extreme where I leave the person to their lazy ways and go about mine. Just so they can see how much I really did do. But that would probably just make me look like the ultimate bitch and they'd probably just find someone else (like their mother) to do all the things I did anyway.
Anyway, I chose not to fight with attitude itself. I mean what could piss a person off more than doing everything, being asked why the one thing you didn't do is not done and THEN on top of it all to get attitude when you maybe just maybe expect their lazy feckin ass to lift a feckin lazy ass finger!

A former friend

This is dedicated to someone I considered a friend. To someone who has created a world of hurt, not only to the person you betrayed but to all of us who believed in you. Believed you were a sweet and special person, funny charming and kind. Not to say that you are not those things. You may be, but you're also so much more.

See, I can’t understand how a person can betray and hurt another so deep with so little remorse. Obviously, you aren't thinking about the consequences or at least them actually happening to you. But then when the consequences come, when you get caught in your deceit how do you justify it, how do you come out your face with all that shit? Doesn't it taste bad coming out your mouth, or are you just so used to your mouth having a load of shit in it?

I mean do you actually hear what you are saying? I hear you. I just can't believe that you believe that someone would believe you. But I guess the gullible people out there help you to justify. They believe you, right? They actually don't but since they want to believe you they disregard the reality for the words. But they are faithful people who chose to see the good. They are not to blame.

The only one to blame (other than YOU) is the enablers. How you gonna have your mom lying for you? Really? I mean what kind of trifling ass shit is that? But a person like that, that can do something like that, they are bound to breed and raise someone like you. Cycles. No Wonder.

And even though it seems so straight forward, I still don't get it. What goes on in that brain of yours? How do you justify betrayal and blame? That’s the kicker right there.
I'm the reason you messed up? I caused you to do this? You're joking, right? Are you seriously standing there telling me you are so weak minded that you can't think for yourself. You have no control? Again, do you hear yourself? You are standing there admitting that you're nothing but a weak stupid son of a bitch.

Please, for me, go ahead and look in that mirror, look straight into your eyes and tell yourself that the anguish you've caused is OK cause they made you do it. OK cause they really deserved it. The others affected by your shit, who are experiencing this betrayal for the first time, BECAUSE OF YOU, did they deserve it too?

Look at yourself. Tell me, do you like what you see?

I don’t.

I see something different than you. I see a weak ass boy - don't you dare call yourself a man. I see someone who is selfish, a heartless cad too stupid to realize that you just wasted away the only chance at happiness that you didn't even deserve in the first place. And supposedly not even on a pair of legs but on a ridiculous sense of pride, respect, being "the man". We won't even go there on your asinine blame game. That just shows how petty and dickless you really are.

To my former friend who has hurt many, including me, beyond repair, I say this:
You aren't the man; you're no man at all. You are a punk bitch that deserves no less than to be skinned alive and then left for the vultures to play with.

Oh, and since I'm a bitch and not a punk, I can't wait to see you to tell you to your face.

Why are bosses surprised when you quit?

They haven't given you a raise in two years because the economy is "bad". They have you come in early, stay late and don't even bother with a thank you. There is no such thing as comp time and getting an approval for vacation is as painful as a root canal.

You know you are getting paid at least 10K less than any man who's in the same position - even though you do a much better job. Your benefits, if you can call them that, suck and there is basically no chance of promotion.

Projects are given to you last minute and then you're yelled at when you don't have it done on time. They ask you to do something then stand over you while you do it, or better yet, tell you in explicit detail how to do it. You're given their personal shit to handle, cause they're wives who stay home (and who's kids are in school full time) are just to busy.

OK, to be fair, that kind of thing would probably only happen at a small company. At a bigger company you only have to worry about being a number because the HR person you've been dealing with for 5 years can't remember your name. You do get your time approved quickly because you only have to give 6 months notice to take a week's vacation. Raises ARE given yearly, but at 2% a year you sure are doing a LOT with that extra 20 bucks a paycheck.

Typically you're given your projects in advance but, of course, when you can't meet those unrealistic goals you are typically given additional training or just put on probation. You know nothing about the owners of your esteemed company...but that's OK...they know nothing about you either.

So please tell me why oh why are they surprised when you find a better gig? Could you possibly believe that someone else is going to pay you more or treat you better? Are you a fool in thinking that just maybe you would like to advance your career and not be their personal lackey in 5 years? God forbid you think you have a brain and would like a better compliment than "She's great at printing." Stupid, stupid you for ever coming outside of their little world to think there may be something better out there for you.

So I say to the bosses who are surprised to find out you actually took the time and found a better job in this "bad" economy....So Long Sucka!